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an EXCLUSIVE 3-month program with

The Matriarch of Healing and Purpose,

Monique Gaffney

Young Confident Woman

Have you ever wanted to go on a badass trip, one that you know would be magicalAF when you got there? Like an "Eat, Love, Pray" kind of trip, where
at the end of it, you want it to stay that way forever; never want to go back to
the way life was before?

Get ready for the trip of a lifetime, because this program is THAT kind of trip -

for your SOUL.

I've worked with countless women and the conversation always begins with a very similar statement:

"I want to know who I am, why I'm here. And how to get there."

I know how it feels to be in that wanting, that desire to know whoTF you really are and BE HER.

I lived that for the majority of my life. In the constant wishing, hoping, praying desperately for the answer. I didn't know how to let go of the thoughts that conflicted in my mind simultaneously between "You KNOW you've got this, girl" to "There's no way you can do that." I felt lost and I hated it.

Until I couldn't take it anymore.

I had to come back to ME.



And now, I've been called to give you the roadmap back to YOU.


Welcome to:

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  • Do you feel like you've lost yourself, or don't really know who you are?

  • Do you want to let go of past trauma, hurts and baggage that you know is holding you back?

  • Do you have secret goals, visions and dreams that feel "impossible" to make happen?

  • Do you have limiting beliefs and negative thoughts you are ready to kick to the curb?

  • Do you have fears around what others will think/say if you unleash the REAL you?

  • Do you despise who you are now and how life feels, knowing it's not who you really are?

  • Do you desire to remember your Purpose and take steps to serve in it?

  • Do you want to be head over heels in love with yourself and your life? 

  • Are you ready to take big action and BECOME every bit of who God called
    and created you to be?!

Destination: YOU is an exclusive program that will walk you through your past so you know why you are who you are right now, look at your present and see what needs to be healed, released and adjusted, and then meeting up with the future You -

the REAL YOU. That badass babe who knows she has a Purpose and is ready to

step into it FEARLESSLY!

Once upon a time, back before I stepped into the Real Monique, I had a nice, average life. I had the life many dream of...the "white picket fence" kind of life.

I made 6-figures in a corporate career, had a loving and supportive husband, 3 healthy beautiful girls, a lovely home in a gated community and lots of beautiful fans and followers online. I posted lots of pretty pics with fake smiles...


...but it was bullshit.

I mean not the husband/kids/house/money part. That was real. But my smiles were forced, the photos were staged, and the truth was, I was dying inside.

Most of all, I was tired of living an inauthentic life. I wasn't saying the things that were on my heart.
I wasn't doing the things my soul was begging me to do. I was just going through the motions, and every aspect of my life suffered and I couldn't figure out why I had everything,
yet felt so empty inside, like I had nothing.

Until I took the same trip you're about to embark on.

It wasn't until I hit an emotional "rock bottom" and asked God to show me a way out.

Destination: YOU was the way.

It was a long road for me, but now that I've got it down pat, I'm like your Spiritual Tour Guide,
taking you on the trip of a lifetime! (I should make myself a badge for this! LOL!)

Once I traveled to my past and understood whatTF happened through our foundational healing work Core Wound Healing™, it all became crystal clear. It was those "ooooooohhhhhhhhhh I geeeeeet iiiiiiit" moments that allowed me to "pass go" and move on to the next part of my journey.

With a clear understanding of my past and consistently using Core Wound Healing™ to heal my past wounds, I could then take an observant look at where I was in the "now", in the then present moment. I could see how the past had led me to where I was, and again, used CWH™ to heal what needed to be healed, and then took aligned action to step even closer to the real me.

Which led me to where I was headed all along: BACK TO ME. The REAL me. The Me I was created to be - unlimited, full of potential and Gifts and Talents and fearlessly diving into my Purpose.
The Me I craved to be all along.

And now I will guide you on this journey to become "Her", too.

Become the woman who radiates confidence when she walks into a room or slides into a Zoom and all eyes are on her. She no longer shrinks and hides, she's ready to be seen. She stands up tall, she gets dressed every day. SHE SHOWS THE FUCK UP FOR HERSELF, every single day
because it feels good to do so; because that is who she is.

Become the woman who speaks her truth and knows that someone needs to hear it. Fear of judgment no longer holds her back - her message is filled with a fire that is burning to be heard,
and she is ready to speak it.

Become the woman who not only knows she has a Purpose, but has reconnected with it and fearlessly leaps into action to fulfill ALL she was called and created to be, do and have. She is an impact maker, and takes every next step without limits to bring her Good Work to the world.

Become the woman who attracts all that she desires and needs to be fully supported in all she does, every day, in every way. The love, the joy, the abundance, the laughter, the help, the fun...all flows in easily and she happily accepts in all in grace and gratitude.

Become the You with no limits, with nothing holding her back and with the confidence, authenticity and pure joy that radiates and inspires everyone and everything she comes in contact with.


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Revisiting your past : HEAL HER.

Ever wonder why you are who you are, and how you got to where you are right now - NOT in a good way? LOL Like "Who the fuck am I and what is this bullshit life I'm living?"

Month 1 you'll learn why. You know who you are right now it's not the 100% REALEST you. You know it's not the You you desperately want to be. You know you have SO. MUCH. MORE. in you to give. So what the hell is holding you back?!

We'll travel back in time to see what past events have shaped you, what thoughts and beliefs are planted in that keep you in the same patterns, what bullshit stories you are carrying around, and then we'll heal the fuck out of them, so you'll be one step closer to BECOMING "HER" - the You that is waiting to be unleashed!

- 2 LIVE-taught Soul Sessions

- 1 LIVE group "Blaze Forward" Session (like group coaching but EVEN BETTER)
- Mid-month private 3-day Group Core Wound Healing™ Healing Session

- Soul work to help you continue to shed layers and stay alignedAF!



Looking at the present you: REMEMBER HER.

Ok, we've looked at the past and now we understand why we are the way we are. And we've healed some of it and the flame is LIT!! You're feeling better than you have in forever!!

Month 2 we'll travel to the present and look at who you are right now. What does she desire to release that she is not saying out loud? What does her soul crave to create, that she isn't sharing with the world? What beautiful Gifts and Talents has she let go to be what she thought the world wanted her to be?

This is the leg of the trip where you remember whoTF you really are. Like when you meet up with an old girlfriend on a trip, you'll meetup and reconnect to You. You'll fall back in love with yourself, honor the gifts and talents you let fall to the wayside, forgive yourself for what needs to be forgiven, and take action steps to rekindle that old long lost friendship that felt so good once upon a time. Cause she misses you, too.

And just when we think we've healed enough, we'll heal some more. 

- 2 LIVE-taught Soul Sessions

- 1 LIVE group "Blaze Forward" sesh

- Mid-Month private 3-day Group Core Wound Healing Session

- FireAF Soul Work to keep you aligned and remembering whoTF you are!



Look to the future you, the HIGHEST and BEST YOU: BECOME HER

You FEEL Her in you. You've seen Her. She does BIG SHIT and you have been in awe (and honestly, intimidated!) of her your whole life, not believing you could actually BE Her.

Until now.

You've done the work for the last 2 months and YOU. ARE. SO. READY. to enmesh with finally BECOME HER.

This month you'll take your final leg of the trip to connect with Her. The future You that is the highest and best version of You. That badass babe that is burning in you with a fire to serve the world and make an impact in some delicious way.

You'll learn about who she really is, what she desires, what her Purpose is, how she serves, what she wears, things she loves, what she says, how she shows up, and so much more. She is the icon you've always looked up to. You are Her. She is You.

You'll court Future You, date Future You, and finally merge with Her and take aligned action steps to BECOME her:

that badass woman who knows fully who she is, has no fear around owning every delicious bit of it and is on fire to finally be serving in her Purpose in a bigger way!

- Private 3-day Group Core Wound Healing™ Session

- 2 LIVE-taught Soul Sessions

- 1 LIVE group "Blaze Forward" sesh

- Soul Work to get you FIREDTF UP and creating your soul work!
- Celebration Call

Happy Friends


Full, amazing, badass, life changing program as outlined above +

Access to The Self Healers Academy™ May-July

Happy Woman


Full Program +
Group session +

Three (3) 1-hour 1:1s +

Access to The Self Healers Academy™ for the month of April + May-July!

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6 LIVE-taught Soul Sessions

3 LIVE Blaze Forward Sessions (better than coaching)

3 group Core Wound Healing™ Session

Soul Work to keep you alignedAF with your highest and best Self and taking Purpose-full action!

Lifetime access to this work (it will be turned into a course later!)

Access to me in a private group, in MY private social healing App (aka NOT on FB or IG!!)

Celebration call cause we are gonna celebrate allllllllll the amazing shit YOU DO!!!

3-month access to The Self Healers Academy Membership:
Includes additional coaching and courses! ($900 value)

Lifetime access to the Core Wound Healing™ Course to continue your healing journey forever! (priceless)


Melissa H.

Virtual Assistant, Accountant

"Working with Monique is a blessing that I will forever be grateful for. She helped me learn so much about myself. Together we discovered my Purpose and my life hasn’t been the same since. My business was literally born out of a one on one coaching call with Monique. It’s so much fun to do “work” now that I can’t even call it work. Monique brought that out in me.


Personally, she is phenomenal. She brought out a confidence in me that I didn’t know I had, but I learned to find from watching her. She is a beautiful example of light. Monique is a good friend and is one of my loudest cheerleaders. But she’s not a yes-girl, lol. She stands for her beliefs and helps me see past the face of something into the deeper parts of it, even if they aren’t so pretty.


Because of Monique’s teachings, I have been able to help others see past the surface of their ego into their soul. I am forever grateful to her and continue to share her and her teachings with people I come across."


Tiffany W.

Life Coach, Multi-business Entrepreneur, Podcaster, Professional Network Marketer

"Working with Monique was the best investment I have ever made on myself.

I am a personal development junkie and have invested and spent thousands of dollars on books, programs, and coaching over the past 5 years and none of it combined has been as valuable as the 6 weeks I spent working with Monique.
No book, podcast, or program can compare to the level of guidance, leadership, commitment and service Monique provides to her clients. She is very gifted in what she does and her expertise shows.


Just when I thought I’d reached my peak, she would help me to uncover new ways to elevate to the next level, with such ease and flow. Since finishing my 6 weeks of coaching, I have become fully confident in myself and my business. I have seen shifts in my mindset and business that are truly remarkable. I have stepped fully into my power and could not be more grateful for Monique being the catalyst for all of this.

This is an investment that will be (and already has) paid off in ways I could not have imagined."


Jamie Z.

Spiritual Life Coach, Author, Podcaster, Public Speaker

"It is so hard to put into words how much my life has changed because of Monique. First of all, she is real and honest and assists you in getting to the core of what your purpose is.

Here are some of the things I have accomplished in 6 months since coaching with Monique:  I launched Be Happy Be Free 6-week Coaching Program, writing my book which will launch this summer, hosted Chakra Bowl Meditation classes, created challenges via Mailchimp, developed my Be Happy Be Free Tribe, hosted A Night of Forgiveness Event, launched my Be Happy Be Free Podcast, created Manifest Meditate and Chill Course around Soul Goals, and developed Transformation Tuesday Interviews via FB Live and just recently began uploading all my content to Youtube, because I got crystal clear in my Purpose.


I am so grateful to Monique as she has assisted me so much to step fully into my purpose."



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Fondly known as "The Matriarch of Healing and Purpose", Monique Gaffney is the founder and creator of Core Wound Healing™ and The Self Healers Academy™, where she teaches people how to healing their lives, remember their Purpose and serve the world.

For over a decade, Monique has poured into countless women's lives in the pursuit of empowering them to become their highest and best self - the Self they were born to be.

Leading with her own life as an example, as well as seeing her own clients do the same, she has a proven over and over that with the foundation of the 6 Keys to Core Wound Healing, it is possible to not only heal your life, but fearlessly step into your Purpose and serve the world as God called and created you to, make an impact and get paid for your Good Work.


Monique's clients have big goals, visions and dreams and aren't afraid to step into them.

Monique's work confidently walks clients into seeing the fruit of pursuing their Purpose. In short time spans from mere days, to weeks to months, Monique's clients have stepped into their Purpose in all forms, from starting groups, to starting podcasts, to writing books, to getting clients who pay thousands, to launching full fledged businesses.

Armed with their Gifts, Talents and a passionate pursuit to BECOME all they know they are, the women who fearlessly choose to work with Monique's guidance begin to live the life of their wildest dreams, and it happens fastAF.

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Q: When does this program start?
A: We kick off May 4th! You'll be send the calendar for the first month when you enroll.

Q: Is Destination You appropriate for me?
A: If you want a change of some sort – whether it is changing or creating a habit or behavior, improving your work-life balance, changing your career, improving your relationships, being more creative at work, etc – AND you are ready to take steps to achieve it, then you will benefit from taking this program.


Q: How much is the investment to work with you?
A: There are various ways to work with me at different investment price points, ranging from free to $60,000. Currently my exclusive

3-month Destination You Group Program is a $3,333 or $5,555 investment, depending on the level of personal support you desire.


Q: Are you offering a payment plan for Destination You?

A: Yes. There is a 6-pay, bi-weekly payment plan available. Please note a small finance charged is applied for this option and payments are auto-billed every two weeks.

Q: What can I expect from this program?
A: That is up to you. If you show up fully, follow the program as outlined, surrender and stay committed to the process, a transformation in your business, your vision, your energy and your LIFE is inevitable.

Q: Do you offer refunds?
A: Due to the nature of this work, all sales and payments are final and refunds are not offered.

Q: I’m interested or need more information – how do I get in touch?

A: You can send any additional questions to